Post-Separation Abuse by Proxy After divorcing a narcissist, post-separation abuse is common. When the narcissist uses another person to perpetuate the abuse after the relationship ends, it is post-separation abuse by proxy. Since narcissists continue to find supply post-separation, […]
Relentless Flying Monkeys The monkeys fly, and the narcissist cackles! Why do narcissists use flying monkeys to do their dirty business, and what can you do? You can imagine it’s complicated as the monkeys think they are just protecting your […]
Dog Whistling Narcissists know you so well that they publicly abuse you without others recognizing the abuse. So-called “Dog Whistling” is a covert form of gaslighting that narcissists use to trigger or disorient you in public or private. A […]
Gatekeeping by Narcissistic Mothers Gatekeeping is common in otherwise healthy families and even more common during separation and divorce. Mothers may weaponize gatekeeping during custody disputes. Yet, it is known that paternal involvement by both parents is necessary for […]