Intrafamily Loans

Loan your kids a down payment

  Intrafamily Loans Tax Implications   If you have oversaved for retirement, you might consider giving your kids or grandkids a loan for a downpayment on a house. The tax implications of these intrafamily loans are important to understand. With […]

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The "Enough Mindset" In Retirement

“Enough” In Retirement

The opposite of scarcity is enough   The opposite of scarcity is enough. Not abundance. In retirement, it is okay to be enough, and it is okay to have enough. Enough is the goal in retirement rather than abundance.   Scarcity […]

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The moment you knew

The moment you knew

The Moment You Knew He is a Narcissist The moment you know you are married to a narcissist. Retrospectively, it is easy to see red flags. Sometimes, it is also easy to see it in those around you. Before I […]

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shame and burnout

Physician Burnout and Shame

Shame and the Physician Burnout Epidemic   Shame causes, exacerbates, and results from physician burnout. Yet shame is rarely discussed as an underlying risk factor for burnout or as a result of burnout itself. Pimping and other shame-based educational tactics […]

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From FI to Coast FIRE

From FI to Coast FIRE

From FI to Coast FIRE     I went from Financially Independent (FI) at 48 to Coast FIRE when I was 49. Not much of a retirement! Well, that’s the grace offered by FI. You can work for money if […]

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Never Hedge Your Retirement Portfolio

Why you Can’t Hedge Your Retirement Portfolio

Don’t Hedge Your Retirement Portfolio   Never hedge your retirement portfolio! This is one risk you must control without a hedge. Why is “hedge” the riskiest word in investing? Because it demonstrates that you don’t understand risk. If you are […]

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Rumination and Narcissistic Abuse

Rumination and Narcissistic Abuse

Rumination and Narcissistic Abuse   Rumination is named after ruminant animals who re-chew their food. It is an unpleasant experience of repetitive thinking that causes disagreeable emotions such as guilt, shame, anxiety, and depression. Rumination is common during and after […]

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