The Dark Triad: Trump v Newsome

The Dark Triad: Trump v Newsom

The Dark Triad: Trump v Newsom   The Dark Triad is a psychological framework that describes three interconnected personality traits often linked to manipulative or self-serving behavior in social, professional, or political contexts: Machiavellianism, Narcissism, and Psychopathy. We understand narcissism […]

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Covert Narcissistic Physicians

Can You Spot the Covert Narcissist in the Hospital?   You can’t throw a stone in the hospital and not hit a narcissist. While narcissism is a common trait in the USA, it is more common in physicians. Your department […]

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shit testing

Narcissistic “Shit Testing”

Narcissistic Boundary Testing   Narcissists frequently use “shit testing” (henceforth Testing) to see if you will be a good source of narcissistic supply. This Testing is not infrequently one of the first red flags you will encounter from an emotionally […]

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Yellow Rocking

From Grey Rock to Yellow Rocking

Yellow Rocking the Narcissist in Your Life   Yellow rocking: it’s how you communicate with a narcissist. Based on the grey rock method, it is much more. It is polite—and judgment-proof. The yellow rock method is necessary if you can’t […]

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How you Know an Effective Boundary with Narcissists

Effective Boundary with Narcissists

What Happens When a Narcissist Hits an Effective Boundary When setting a boundary with a narcissist, expect it to be challenged as a matter of course. A narcissist finds boundaries intolerable because they lose control. Once you understand you are […]

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Post-Betrayal Syndrome

Betrayal and Post-Betrayal Syndrome If you have been betrayed by someone close to you, it behooves you to understand betrayal trauma and post-betrayal syndrome. Betrayal results in anger, resentment, a loss of trust, and so much more. Afterward, there are […]

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Rumination and Narcissistic Abuse

Rumination and Narcissistic Abuse

Rumination and Narcissistic Abuse   Rumination is named after ruminant animals who re-chew their food. It is an unpleasant experience of repetitive thinking that causes disagreeable emotions such as guilt, shame, anxiety, and depression. Rumination is common during and after […]

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Echoism

Echoism

  Echoism – The Opposite of NPD     Echoism is the so-called opposite of narcissism. As we know, narcissistic traits are common and frequently adaptive (or healthy). Only when you get far out on the scale, do the traits […]

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