Gatekeeping by Narcissistic Mothers

Gatekeeping by Narcissistic Mothers

  Gatekeeping by Narcissistic Mothers Gatekeeping is common in otherwise healthy families and even more common during separation and divorce. Mothers may weaponize gatekeeping during custody disputes. Yet, it is known that paternal involvement by both parents is necessary for […]

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Never Retire, Retire Early

Never Retire, Retire Early

Never Retire, Retire Early   There are so many euphemisms for retirement that why not offer up another: Never Retire, Retire Early. In a way, it is like coast FIRE, and in a way, it is going to the grave […]

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sources of income

Sources of Income in Retirement

Sources of Income in Retirement What are the sources of income in retirement? Let’s develop a semi-comprehensive list and discuss when you might access each.   Sources of Income Retirement accounts IRAs and 401k plans represent the largest bucket of […]

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Motivation and Intention in Retirement

How to Get Motivated in Retirement

Motivation and Intention in Retirement   There is a lot of stuff to do in retirement. If you choose to be busy, you can! But what motivates you to do the things you love doing, and how reliable are those […]

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When Should I stop disability insurance?

When Should I Stop Disability Insurance?

Disability Insurance- When Should I Stop Once you are Financially Independent (FI), you no longer require income to pay bills. If you don’t need your income to pay bills, you don’t need disability insurance! So, when should you drop disability insurance […]

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Roth Conversions are like longevity insurance

How Roth Conversions are like Longevity Insurance

Roth Conversions are Longevity Insurance Roth conversions are a little like longevity insurance! Longevity insurance pays you more the longer you live. It protects against living too long a life. Social security is longevity insurance, too. Interested? Let’s talk about […]

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Roth Conversions 2023

Partial Roth Conversions

Roth Conversions Let’s talk about what is new for Roth Conversions. The point: there are many different types of Roth conversions, and they may be affected differently by changes in the law in the next few years. Let’s start with […]

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